Hello everyone!
As you can tell, I don't post here often... But lately I heard or well, read, something that made me curious.
On a community forum I'm part of, a woman recently said that she believes every woman is at least 10% lesbian. Now, I've wondered about this before... So many straight women will say "Oh, she's hott!" - isn't that, at least a little bit, a lesbian thought? Now, what about all these women who say they have a "girl crush" on an actress, or even one of their close friends. Isn't a girl crush the same as any other crush, therefore making said woman a little bit lesbian?
When I was little, I was attracted to women. I had no idea what straight, lesbian, bi or gay was. As an adult, I know I am a lesbian and I love being one. And while I have friends, some who I consider truly awesome girls, I don't want to say... "So... Are you a little bit lesbian?" Therefore, I'm asking here. On this blog.
If you don't feel comfortable answering, feel free to ignore this post. I don't mind! But for those of you who are interested...
What do you think? Do you think every women is at least a little bit lesbian?
Have you ever had a "girl crush?" Do you think there is any difference between a girl crush and a crush?
Have you ever thought about a girl in a sexual way?
Have you or would you ever kiss a girl, whether a complete stranger or your best friend?
Anything else you'd like to add?
I'm definitely interested in seeing your answers! ^_^
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Erotica and You Do What For a Living?
Hey everyone!
Today for some reason, all I can think about is employment and money. So, with those thoughts on my mind, I figured now would be a good time to talk about something I'd love to do.
I truly want to work from home and I'd LOVE to be an artist. However, there is another career choice I've pondered about. And that is being a writer. Now, to be honest, I do not like romance novels. They just are not my genre of choice. Then again, the only one's I've seen in the store have been straight romance novels and they're normally melodramatic.
Online, there are plenty of free romance stories. However, for some reason, they are either very small or every story is generally the same. For some odd reason, lesbian stories normally involve: Drug use (what? why?) Something dramatic like a rape or divorce that shows "why" the lesbians are lesbian (...again, what? why?) and other rather uninteresting, to me at least, things.
Don't get me wrong, SOME are good! But I rarely find anything... Sexy/cute, honestly.
For a while now I've thought about writing erotica. It's one genre I love and I think I know enough to make a good story. I've even wrote a chapter or two... Because, to be honest, erotica for ME is not "hot stuff, hot stuff, end." Most of the time, I want to read a story. Not just smut.
I've actually started writing some, have a chapter or two, not sure if I'll really continue. But it IS a fun idea...
Now, as for the second part of my title "You Do What For a Living?" I have to say, I am not one of those people who turn their nose up at the "seedier" career choices. Strippers, Dominatrix's, Porn Photographers, etc. I think they all have a certain appeal.
Stripping, for instance. I do not think someone is a slut because they strip and I do not think they have no respect for themselves. Dominatrix's earn (normally) over a $1,000 a day... $1,000 a DAY! And most of them do not even fuck people! They look hott and indulge in fantasies and they make more in a few hours than I used to in a WEEK!
If you can't tell, I actually look into these jobs. I love learning about career choices that are not the norm. At least, not for most people. I still think being an erotica writer or an erotic photographer would actually be fun jobs. Ya never know!
Today for some reason, all I can think about is employment and money. So, with those thoughts on my mind, I figured now would be a good time to talk about something I'd love to do.
I truly want to work from home and I'd LOVE to be an artist. However, there is another career choice I've pondered about. And that is being a writer. Now, to be honest, I do not like romance novels. They just are not my genre of choice. Then again, the only one's I've seen in the store have been straight romance novels and they're normally melodramatic.
Online, there are plenty of free romance stories. However, for some reason, they are either very small or every story is generally the same. For some odd reason, lesbian stories normally involve: Drug use (what? why?) Something dramatic like a rape or divorce that shows "why" the lesbians are lesbian (...again, what? why?) and other rather uninteresting, to me at least, things.
Don't get me wrong, SOME are good! But I rarely find anything... Sexy/cute, honestly.
For a while now I've thought about writing erotica. It's one genre I love and I think I know enough to make a good story. I've even wrote a chapter or two... Because, to be honest, erotica for ME is not "hot stuff, hot stuff, end." Most of the time, I want to read a story. Not just smut.
I've actually started writing some, have a chapter or two, not sure if I'll really continue. But it IS a fun idea...
Now, as for the second part of my title "You Do What For a Living?" I have to say, I am not one of those people who turn their nose up at the "seedier" career choices. Strippers, Dominatrix's, Porn Photographers, etc. I think they all have a certain appeal.
Stripping, for instance. I do not think someone is a slut because they strip and I do not think they have no respect for themselves. Dominatrix's earn (normally) over a $1,000 a day... $1,000 a DAY! And most of them do not even fuck people! They look hott and indulge in fantasies and they make more in a few hours than I used to in a WEEK!
If you can't tell, I actually look into these jobs. I love learning about career choices that are not the norm. At least, not for most people. I still think being an erotica writer or an erotic photographer would actually be fun jobs. Ya never know!
Monday, March 29, 2010
Ooh La La!
Hey everyone!
When I was growing up, I often heard women saying how much they hated when their partner surprised them with lingerie and saying things like "That's a gift for him/her, not me!" And I always wondered... Why? In my opinion, if your partner gives you a gift that showcases your body in anyway - lingerie, a sultry costume, etc. you should be proud. Not upset!
And feeling proud about your body and wearing sexy little things can make you feel like a Goddess. Whether you wear them around your partner or even on your own (garter and stockings under work pants, a sexy nightie or silk robe while lounging around, etc.)
I love lingerie and sexy costumes. Both on myself and on Jen. In fact, when Jenny and I are employed, we normally buy at least one new piece of lingerie a week, each. Most of our wardrobe, is in fact, lingerie and sexy costumes.
One of the BEST things about working at our local Halloween store last year, was that we were able to buy some of the cutest, sexiest costumes for 75% off.
We got a lot of great stuff...
Jenny got this very sexy french maid outfit. It has little white polka dots that you cannot see in this picture!
We each got this sexy Alice costume. It's SO cute in person! We also got white poofy petticoats that just look adorable underneath.
Jen got this cute light up fairy costume. Yes, LIGHT UP! The skirt actually glows. It's very fun in the dark. ;)
Sorry for the small picture! Anyway, Jen and I both got this sexy nun outfit. In fact, this is what we wore to work! Our boss let all of us dress up and come into work in whatever costume we wanted. This was our choice!
Jen also got this HOTT showgirl outfit. Bow chicka bow wow!
And! Being the Harry Potter fans that we are, we each got this costume too. It's SO cute and fits great!
I think the hardest part was getting our size right. We wear a size small, however most costumes won't fit over our busts... I'm a 38C (Jen has a feeling I'm actually a D and I think she is right. I really need to pay a visit to Victoria's Secret to get a sizing!) and Jen is 36C. So we normally ended up with a medium. Sadly, small and medium go fast. So we normally ended up hiding costumes in the back room. Shhh... ;)
Now to give some store love...
3Wishes.com
This store is amazing and I've been shopping there for years.
They not only have costumes...
(We're suckers for anything vampire related. Plus this is like a vampire cocktail waitress outfit, which is all kinds of sexy, if you ask me!)
(Sadly, neither of us has ever had a Playboy Bunny outfit. This needs to change, people!)
But they also have really nice lingerie...
(We both find long nightgowns to be extremely sexy!)
(So beautiful! I so want this!)
Shoes and boots...
(So sexy! I'd love to get these for Jenny!)
(So girly! So cute!)
(I want them! In black! Jen has a pair of boots very similar to these, they look awesome!)
(I think these would go GREAT with a vampire costume or in everyday wear, a little black mini!)
And even club wear...
(I sooo badly want this!)
(I can definitely see Jenny and I wearing this with some nice jeans and cute shoes!)
I have many favorite stores, but 3Wishes is definitely on the top of my list. I'd go into more of my favorites, but I think this is enough clothing and shoe porn for one post! Let me know what you like or don't like and tell me your opinion on the whole lingerie/costume thing being a gift for the gift giver!
Later!
When I was growing up, I often heard women saying how much they hated when their partner surprised them with lingerie and saying things like "That's a gift for him/her, not me!" And I always wondered... Why? In my opinion, if your partner gives you a gift that showcases your body in anyway - lingerie, a sultry costume, etc. you should be proud. Not upset!
And feeling proud about your body and wearing sexy little things can make you feel like a Goddess. Whether you wear them around your partner or even on your own (garter and stockings under work pants, a sexy nightie or silk robe while lounging around, etc.)
I love lingerie and sexy costumes. Both on myself and on Jen. In fact, when Jenny and I are employed, we normally buy at least one new piece of lingerie a week, each. Most of our wardrobe, is in fact, lingerie and sexy costumes.
One of the BEST things about working at our local Halloween store last year, was that we were able to buy some of the cutest, sexiest costumes for 75% off.
We got a lot of great stuff...
Jenny got this very sexy french maid outfit. It has little white polka dots that you cannot see in this picture!
We each got this sexy Alice costume. It's SO cute in person! We also got white poofy petticoats that just look adorable underneath.
Jen got this cute light up fairy costume. Yes, LIGHT UP! The skirt actually glows. It's very fun in the dark. ;)
Sorry for the small picture! Anyway, Jen and I both got this sexy nun outfit. In fact, this is what we wore to work! Our boss let all of us dress up and come into work in whatever costume we wanted. This was our choice!
Jen also got this HOTT showgirl outfit. Bow chicka bow wow!
And! Being the Harry Potter fans that we are, we each got this costume too. It's SO cute and fits great!
I think the hardest part was getting our size right. We wear a size small, however most costumes won't fit over our busts... I'm a 38C (Jen has a feeling I'm actually a D and I think she is right. I really need to pay a visit to Victoria's Secret to get a sizing!) and Jen is 36C. So we normally ended up with a medium. Sadly, small and medium go fast. So we normally ended up hiding costumes in the back room. Shhh... ;)
Now to give some store love...
3Wishes.com
This store is amazing and I've been shopping there for years.
They not only have costumes...
(We're suckers for anything vampire related. Plus this is like a vampire cocktail waitress outfit, which is all kinds of sexy, if you ask me!)
(Sadly, neither of us has ever had a Playboy Bunny outfit. This needs to change, people!)
But they also have really nice lingerie...
(We both find long nightgowns to be extremely sexy!)
(So beautiful! I so want this!)
Shoes and boots...
(So sexy! I'd love to get these for Jenny!)
(So girly! So cute!)
(I want them! In black! Jen has a pair of boots very similar to these, they look awesome!)
(I think these would go GREAT with a vampire costume or in everyday wear, a little black mini!)
And even club wear...
(I sooo badly want this!)
(I can definitely see Jenny and I wearing this with some nice jeans and cute shoes!)
I have many favorite stores, but 3Wishes is definitely on the top of my list. I'd go into more of my favorites, but I think this is enough clothing and shoe porn for one post! Let me know what you like or don't like and tell me your opinion on the whole lingerie/costume thing being a gift for the gift giver!
Later!
Uncensoring myself.
Hey everyone! Okay, so over at Lariats and Lavender, I blog about my daily life. Most of the things I blog about are pretty tame. Why? Because I know not everyone wants to read about my more extreme hobbies, interests and views. And honestly? I do not want to offend anyone. However, that isn't my only reason to start this blog. I also plan on blogging about things that do not really fit into Lariats and Lavender. This all makes sense in my head, okay?
So, let me start out with a small warning: This blog is for those 18 years of age and older. There may be any of the following: Artistic erotic photography, posts about anything and everything sexual, curse words, strong views and much much more. I'm not saying these will all be included in my posts, but with me, you never know.
So, let me continue my introduction. My name is Angie, I am 20 and cannot wait to 21 and I am very happily married to my beautiful wife and soul mate Jennifer. Both Jenny and I are "girly girls" so no, neither of us is butch. I have NOTHING against people who are butch, I just like people to be able to "see" us for who we are while reading my blog posts.
I am a gamer, a geek, an artist, a shopaholic, a LGBTQ supporter, a lover of nature, a Wiccan, a cowgirl, a little bit gothic, a little bit of a city girl, a sex addict and a total girly girl who is not afraid to get dirty.
So there you go. Me in a few little words.
Anyway, welcome to my blog and feel free to comment! I love hearing what other people have to say.
So, let me start out with a small warning: This blog is for those 18 years of age and older. There may be any of the following: Artistic erotic photography, posts about anything and everything sexual, curse words, strong views and much much more. I'm not saying these will all be included in my posts, but with me, you never know.
So, let me continue my introduction. My name is Angie, I am 20 and cannot wait to 21 and I am very happily married to my beautiful wife and soul mate Jennifer. Both Jenny and I are "girly girls" so no, neither of us is butch. I have NOTHING against people who are butch, I just like people to be able to "see" us for who we are while reading my blog posts.
I am a gamer, a geek, an artist, a shopaholic, a LGBTQ supporter, a lover of nature, a Wiccan, a cowgirl, a little bit gothic, a little bit of a city girl, a sex addict and a total girly girl who is not afraid to get dirty.
So there you go. Me in a few little words.
Anyway, welcome to my blog and feel free to comment! I love hearing what other people have to say.
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